jillb_14
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Post by jillb_14 on Dec 29, 2001 17:53:46 GMT -5
Ok..me and this guy went out for about 3 months.I broke up with him b/c i never go to see him but i still like him a whoooollleee lot. he told me the other day that he still liked me too. what should i do
reasons NOT to go out with him
-he lives an hour away
-he is 3 yrs. older than me
reasons i SHOULD go out with him
-he hot as hell
-he drives a BMW
-he's very athletic
-is sweet and nice
HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLP!
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Post by T1 Req on Dec 29, 2001 18:01:36 GMT -5
If you can handle the bus fare or whatever to get to his or him to yours, etc. then go for it. I live an hour away from school but I haven't dropped out
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Post by Con on Dec 30, 2001 5:35:59 GMT -5
distance relationships sucks, its all gravy when youre together and shit, but when youve been apart for like 3 weeks cus of work, school etc. you start to wonder if its worth it, my advice; if you feel for the guy and you know that the time apart wont be a problem go for it, if youre the type who needs to be with her bf constantly, id think a little harder before committing yourself... material goods are not reasons to date a guy, unless youre a golddigging ho  |
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Post by T1 Req on Dec 30, 2001 7:56:41 GMT -5
"material goods are not reasons to date a guy, unless youre a golddigging ho "I was gonna say that also. Athletic people suck without exception, also so it may be advisable to not get back with him lest he show his true colours and really upset you.
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Post by michelleisthebest on Dec 30, 2001 12:29:23 GMT -5
A hot athlete who drives a BMW? Fuck the distance thing, lemme tell ya from experience- THIS GUY IS A DICK. Sure he seems nice now, because HE WANTS SEX. This guy wont treat you well. On top of that, trust is very important in a long distance relationship- and YOU CANNOT TRUST AN ATHLETE. He will cheat on you. hehe not to generalize or stereotype, but I truly believe that what I just said is true of 99% of athletes. Every athlete Ive ever known (not just the ones Ive dated) has been a cheating, shallow, materialistic egomaniac. Im only saying all of this because I hope you dont get hurt.  I think maybe you should look for someone in your own town to distract you from this guy. |
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jillb_14
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Post by jillb_14 on Dec 30, 2001 22:23:55 GMT -5
but this guy isn't like that..i dont' think
when we r together it seems like i can always trust him
but this guy is soo fine that i noe he could get jis about ne gurl he wnated to ne time and that scares me sooo much
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Post by michelleisthebest on Dec 31, 2001 1:01:59 GMT -5
And that's exactly why you SHOULD be scared. Chris Rock says a man is just about as faithful as his options, and I think in most cases hes right. And of course he seems trustworthy- if he seemed like a cheating skank he wouldnt get girls would he? That shit is a learned act. And the way he is when youre together is probably very different than when youre apart, sadly. Good luck |
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jillb_14
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Post by jillb_14 on Jan 1, 2002 21:31:09 GMT -5
thanks
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I think maybe you should look for someone in your own town to distract you from this guy.